Dear Amy,

I’m a widower rekindling an old romance with my college sweetheart, “Siena,” who’s also widowed. We happily attended my daughter’s family gathering last year, but this year, Siena was not invited due to undisclosed reasons. Some family members objected to her attendance, perhaps due to her disability or her remarks against anti-vaxxers. Should I discuss this issue with my daughter or let it slide to maintain peace? Siena suggests letting it go. Your advice?

Next, a reader in his late twenties has inherited a whopping $500,000 from his grandfather and asks for guidance on how to manage it. His girlfriend is enthralled by the idea of early retirement, but Amy advises against spending the money frivolously. Instead, save or invest it wisely, Amy suggests, and if desired, consider buying a first home.

Lastly, a proud parent shares college rules applied for their children – passing classes and acquiring a degree by 30. Their strategy successfully led to all their offspring graduating by this spring. Amy heartily congratulates them on their achievement.

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